We speak different love languages, but the universal need is to feel loved - Gary Chapman
Love is not only something you feel, it is something you do - Gary Chapman
Seldom do a husband and wife have the same primary love language. We tend to speak our own language and become confused when our spouse does not understand - Gary Chapman
Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct - Gary Chapman
You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving - Gary Chapman
Love makes requests, not demands - Gary Chapman
The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well-being of the one you love - Gary Chapman
When we choose active expressions of love in the primary love language of our spouse, we create an emotional climate where we can deal with our differences and conflicts - Gary Chapman
We cannot rely on our emotions to sustain love; we must choose to love - Gary Chapman
Love is something you do for someone else, not something you do for yourself - Gary Chapman
People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest emotional need - Gary Chapman
