Wise advice on Verified

Being sincere in love means expressing it in a way the other person values - Gary Chapman
Your good intentions don't matter if your partner doesn't feel them. Sincerity isn't about what you *think* you're giving; it's about what they actually receive and value.

What Verified means

Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct - Gary Chapman
The core message here is that true emotional security comes not from the initial rush of infatuation, but from the profound certainty that you are chosen and loved intentionally.