Wise advice on Verified

You can’t change your partner, but you can change how you respond to them - John Gray
It's about accepting the reality that you cannot force someone to change, and instead, focusing on the one thing you have 100% control over: your own reactions and behavior.

Wise advice on Verified

When you complain, you make yourself a victim. Leave the situation, change it, or accept it, all else is madness - Eckhart Tolle
The core message is brutally simple: Complaining is an act of self-sabotage that traps you in a powerless state. It's about reclaiming your agency.