Wise advice on differences

When you expect your partner to think and feel the same way you do, you set yourself up for disappointment - John Gray
The core message is brutally simple: Assuming your partner's inner world matches yours is a guaranteed path to disappointment. It's about the fundamental, and often painful, acceptance of otherness.

Wise advice on differences

The more you understand your partner’s differences, the easier it is to love them the way they need to be loved - John Gray
At its core, this quote means that effective love is a skill, not just a feeling. It's about translating your affection into a language your partner actually understands and values.