Isolation is not the price of progress—it’s the failure of community. Sebastian Junger hits on a profound truth here, one that challenges our modern definition of success and what we’re really sacrificing for it.
Share Image Quote:At its core, this quote flips the script. It argues that the loneliness and disconnection we often feel in our advanced societies isn’t a necessary trade-off for technological and economic advancement. Instead, it’s a direct result of our collective failure to build and maintain strong, supportive communities.
Look, I’ve seen this play out so many times. We’re sold this idea that to get ahead—to be successful, to be a high-performer—you have to go it alone. You have to put in the solitary hours, move away from home, prioritize the individual over the group. And we’ve kind of accepted that isolation is just the cost of doing business in the modern world.
But Junger is saying, No. That’s a lie. It’s a failure of our social fabric. We’re wired for connection, for tribe. When we don’t have that, we break. We see it in skyrocketing rates of anxiety, depression, and a deep, pervasive sense of being adrift. The progress isn’t causing the isolation; our abandonment of community is. It’s a powerful, and honestly, a liberating reframe. It means the solution isn’t to work harder in isolation, but to rebuild the very thing we’ve let crumble.
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| Original Language | English (4116) |
| Category | Community (61) |
| Topics | failure (59), isolation (8), progress (56) |
| Literary Style | direct (446), memorable (244) |
| Emotion / Mood | serious (184) |
| Overall Quote Score | 82 (328) |
This quote comes directly from Sebastian Junger’s 2016 book, Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging. It was published in the United States. You might sometimes see the sentiment echoed elsewhere, but this specific, beautifully sharp phrasing is Junger’s.
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| Author | Sebastian Junger (60) |
| Source Type | Book (4729) |
| Source/Book Name | Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging (60) |
| Origin Timeperiod | 21st Century (1995) |
| Original Language | English (4116) |
| Authenticity | Verified (4729) |
Sebastian Junger is born in Belmont, United States on 1962. He studied cultural anthropology at Wesleyan University and built his career in journalism. He is the one of the leading contributor and editor at Vanity Fair. Along with Tim Hetherington, he codirected Restrepo(2010 American documentary), which went on to win Sundance’s Grand Jury Prize and an Academy Award nomination. The Sebastian Junger book list includes The Perfect Storm, Tribe, A Death in Belmont, Freedom, War, and In My Time of Dying, each marked by distinct writing style
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| Quotation | Isolation is not the price of progress—it’s the failure of community |
| Book Details | Publication Year: 2016; ISBN: 978-1-4555-6638-6; Last edition: 2017; Number of pages: 192. |
| Where is it? | Chapter 3: In Bitter Safety I Awake, Approximate page 80 from 2017 edition |
Junger builds this argument by looking at a fascinating paradox: why do some soldiers coming back from brutal, tight-knit platoons have a harder time adjusting to modern civilian life than to war? His research points to the fact that the intense, communal bonds formed in a tribe—whether in a military unit or a small-scale society—fulfill a deep human need that our modern, fragmented world often fails to provide. The book is essentially a diagnosis of our societal loneliness.
This isn’t just an academic idea. You can use this quote to shift perspectives in real conversations.
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| Theme | Wisdom (2048) |
| Audiences | educators (306), leaders (3017), sociologists (21), students (3578) |
| Usage Context/Scenario | lectures (17), motivational essays (160), policy debates (3), social commentaries (2) |
Question: Does this mean we should reject all technological progress?
Answer: Not at all. It’s not anti-progress. It’s a call to be mindful that our pursuit of progress shouldn’t come at the cost of our fundamental human need for connection. The goal is to harness progress to build better communities, not more isolated individuals.
Question: How is this a “failure” of community? Isn’t it just individual choice?
Answer: That’s the key insight. When societal structures—like how we build cities, design work, or value hyper-independence—actively discourage deep community, it becomes a collective failure. It’s the system failing the individual, not just the individual failing to connect.
Question: Who would benefit most from understanding this quote?
Answer: Honestly, anyone feeling the weight of modern loneliness: leaders managing remote teams, city planners, mental health professionals, and honestly, any individual who feels that “success” has left them feeling empty and alone.
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