Change Quote

If you want to make enemies, try to change someone - Dale Carnegie
The core message is that attempting to force change upon another person is one of the most reliable ways to create resentment and opposition. It's a direct challenge to a person's ego and sense of autonomy.

Flattery Quote

Don’t be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you - Dale Carnegie
The core message is that overt criticism is easy to identify and defend against, while subtle, insincere praise can be a far more dangerous trap, disarming your judgment and leading you astray.