Wise advice on conflict

When men and women are in conflict, they both need to be heard in different ways - John Gray
The core message here is that during arguments, men and women have fundamentally different emotional communication needs. It's not a battle of wills, but a mismatch of listening styles.

Conflict Quote

When you attack people, they defend. When you understand them, they open up - Dale Carnegie
At its core, this is about the psychological pivot from confrontation to collaboration. Attack triggers a defensive, reptilian-brain reaction. Understanding, however, fosters psychological safety and opens the door to genuine dialogue.